Pregnancy killed my sex drive. I feel so guilty.

My husband is a high libido person. I’m more variable. But since the middle of my second trimester, I don’t want to at all. He is so attracted to me but that makes it worse! He also doesn’t masturbate, he never has since he was a young teen. Doesn’t like it. I started having flashbacks about two sexual assaults 10 months ago, ones I buried. I’m okay but it makes it a lot harder to convince myself to just “give it a try and you’ll probably end up enjoying it”.

I just feel so guilty. I love him and I want him to feel validated and wanted but my physical, mental and emotional changes have made me really aversive to sex. He knows all of this, but I’m hurting for him.