Jealous Sister in Law = Hard to be Pregnant around her

​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​So my brother and sister in law have been married for 1 year. Trying to get pregnant since New Years this year. I didn’t know till a few days ago. I'm now 18 weeks pregnant, and she is upset. Tells me that she’s angry, depressed, upset, and jealous of those who don’t have to try as hard as she does to get pregnant. She’s 25, I’m 23. Do I let her say these things to me? She even said she gets upset because of how many people have “Oops” babies, or are bad parents because they don’t appreciate their babies. She “thinks” mine was an oops, and if i tell her otherwise she’ll think I was trying to get pregnant before her. 🙄 I feel uneasy about our baby shower since I’m worried she’ll be filled with rage and evil eyeing me. I feel like we can’t publicly be happy around her or talk about the baby or she’ll think i’m doing it on purpose. Ideas? Opinions? P.S. Her and I don’t get along really anytime, this was just the cherry fizz on top.