How do you deal?

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I’m a 21 mom of two kids, my sons dad left and told me to keep him & his family out of it. Told me to get an abortion told me to stay out his life and keep him out of my child’s life. I’ve been depressed lately. How do you mentally deal with this kind of thing?

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wow okay well I hate to say this but put him on child support and show him that you means business..

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Well you can’t make a baby on your own. He can’t just decide to stop playing “daddy” to his children. He can physically, but not financially. 
Child support!! Go ahead and file for it. Do everything you can to help support your babies.

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Let him go, ensure he signs away his rights... This will be beneficial in the future.

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I cringe so hard when I read posts like this...why do you have 2 children when you are 21 years old and have such an unstable relationship? 
Talk to a lawyer about getting him to pay child support. If you don't live near immediate family, then move closer to them so they can help you because you are going to need it. 
Join a Facebook group for moms in your area. They are a handy source of local advice and you can get loads of toys, clothes, etc for cheap when their children outgrow them. 
Best of luck but try and not have any more kids until your life is more established.

How do you deal?

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