Bleeding after penetration?

Long story, sorry

First off, last year I was sexually involved with a girl, and we ended up trying to use toys. When she would try to use them on me I would bleed a bit, so after two or three different attempts with the same results we decided to not use them on me. There were different sizes but generally pretty big dildos.

So, as of last weekend I’ve been seeing a guy and he has an above-average sized penis. We only actually got it inside me for like 15 seconds, long story short it didnt wanna fit. The pain wasn’t bad at all I didn’t find but my pain tolerance is better than most.

Everything was fine the next day (Sunday) and I didn’t notice any bleeding until Monday morning. At first it was a tiny amount, barely noticeable and only when I was wiping. I did the appropriate thing n googled it knowing this blood was different from my period (bright red, fleshy blood)

Since then I’ve been bleeding enough to cover my thong but it’s not just blood, it always comes out with tons of discharge and as a result I have a goopy, bloody mess.

The blood has gotten darker, almost a brown colour now (Wednesday) & I’m a bit worried; although that’s supposed to happen as the wound heals, ive been bleeding for longer than what most women have experienced

I guess my question is, is it likely he could’ve scratched me without me feeling it? Or is this because my hymen has been torn? & any information on why the blood seems to be half discharge (maybe im producing more discharge to heal the wound?) would be appreciated 💋