It seems that I’m always the last option when it comes to guys I deal with. But it’s one relationship in particular that I’m confused on whether or not I’m being reasonable.

I have a friend that I’ve known for over 7 years. We were best friends in the beginning and now I can barely hold a conversation with him because I’m tired of the empty apologies. He has 4 kids, 4 baby moms and thinks that I should accept everything for what it is now. His excuse for why it didn’t happen back then is because he didn’t think we would meet in person (I gave that to him). Every time he came to see me, he talked about how he wanted us to be serious, just for him to go home and be with someone new. He proposed to me the day before his 3rd son that I knew nothing about was born. I said no because it was and still is too much for me. Am I wrong for not wanting to start over with him?