So me and this guy have been talking for ages and we've been on and off. I have anxiety and have had a little depression in the past and he also suffers from depression. So the situation is complicated because he's not really in his best place and neither am I.

I moved to this school in September and when everyone found out we were talking they were all like OMG yes he needs someone finally, which put a lot of pressure on me because he'll say things like "you make me a happier person" and stuff like that.

He can be really manipulative. He'll do of say manipulative things to me, he's quite possessive over me like if I talk to or am friends with other boys he thinks we're a thing - he even approached one boy about it being like "dude just admit you like her" which he doesn't! He also gets his friends to back him, so they'll message me quizzing me how I feel about him or why I've got a red heart with another guy friend on Snapchat and stuff like that, so I always feel like he has his friends watching me and checking up on me, so I feel like if I ended things they'd judge me or give me a hard time. He can also be kinda aggressive, he has some anger issues and sometimes he'll get too rough with me and like playfully hit me but he does it way too hard or he'll grab me and pick me up or push me over and stuff.

The problem is that we've both admitted there's so much sexual tension between us. He's the first boy I've really been close with like hugging and stuff and I do really enjoy doing that stuff with him.Neither of us have had sex but we both just know that there's a strong physical attraction to one another. So it's like physically I'm really attracted to him but personality wise we don't match at all.

I think I'm so used to the idea of being with him I can't bring myself to move on, even though I know the situation is toxic and its making me more anxious and depressed. I know If I did move on then I'd miss our hugs and stuff because I've never had so much sexual chemistry with anyone. I feel really isolated in the situation.

Help please ladies!!

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