Hi,

I'm in a relationship with an older man. He's energetic, takes care of himself, etc. We have a if it happens it happens attitude since we have semi-regular sex with no BC.

Are there any older dads or dads to be out there? If so, any advice, tips, or general experience sharing?

Honestly, I'm both nervous and excited about the potential of having a baby. Part of me is like yeah I'm 31 and ready. Another part of me is like are you kidding? I'm worried that his age will impact his ability to enjoy the (potential) baby. If we do get serious about a baby, any fertility issues or other stuff we should know about?