Low libido

Hey. I have a question about low libido. I love and am attracted to my husband but now that we’re really TTC this realization smacked me in the face. I have a low libido. I have a history of sexual, emotional and physical abuse and sexual assault but my husband is the most caring supportive person. He understands my needs but I want to make sure I’m meeting his as well. As I sat and wrote out the dates that we’re planning to have sex to get pregnant, and talking to my girlfriends about it, I realized this might not be normal. Everyone is just telling me to go with the flow and if it happens it happens and not to worry.. first IM A WORRYER.. Second, if I left it up to mother nature and my own desire I would never get pregnant. I’m 31 this year and my husband will be 36.

My question is, has anyone recently faced this while ttc and how did you overcome and finally get pregnant? We just started trying but this feels like a huge obstacle right now. Any input whether a question or comment would be appreciated. I know this is a common problem that people face but I feel so alone. Sorry for anonymous.. this is kind of embarrassing for me.