Cheating or gay????

Some of you may have seen my post last night about my husband pretty much being in-interested in me sexually. Well, we argued over it and had fabulous sex before bed last night. I can’t help but worry if you ladies may be right though. What if he is cheating and I just don’t know and he’s covering his tracks well. Or what if he is a closeted gay man and I’m his cover? Idk if I’m just being paranoid or if one of them is actually true. How would I go about finding out if they are true or not because I know for a fact he will just get pissed off if I try to talk to him about it. He thinks it’s me accusing him. I don’t want to make him mad, but I just feel like maybe something is off.....

* It’s not just that he has a lower sex drive. He has turned me down sexually for a while. I even found out he was going to work and handing one out in the bathroom everyday but wouldn’t want to do anything with me. He spends a lot of time at work. He say’s he just has a lot to do, but we work at the same place and I know he would get in trouble to doing too much over time. I’ve tried to do thing’s with him and spice it up in several ways, but he’s not interested, but he jacks off in the shower and stuff knowing that I want him.