I need to vent and some advise....my s/o has been going through a lot for the past 9 months. He hasn't been working at all, I wasn't either 7-8 months ago but as soon as we started draining my account significantly I got a job instantly. And then I found out I was pregnant. He says he's been looking for job but no luck. He almost had one but his record kept him from it the day he was suppose to begin. So I've been working m-f at a job I do not like and I am tired 24/7. I am 24 weeks now and I feel like things are starting to get more difficult for me. He has a child with his previous wife and he's so behind on child support that it's going to court in a couple weeks and now I'm going to have to pay a good chunck of money to keep him out of jail. And it just upsets me because I haven't even seen his child since I found out I was pregnant because he doesn't want the mom knowing (that's what he says at least.) he does only see him one day a week so I get wanting to spend quality time but it's making me feel like he just has a totally different life but I can help pay for the kid. And he's living with some of his family right now and I'm living with mine so I'm very worried that we won't have a place by the time the baby is here. I just feel so stressed out about money and I don't know what to do. I love him more than anything. He is very good to me in every other way, just having a hard time providing. I can't talk to him about any of this because he just gets upset and tells me he's going to have a job and everything will be fine when the baby gets here. Or he tells me to just not be with him. It sucks because I wish I could be setting up my baby's nursery now and getting all of his things together. What would you guys do?