Hi ladies...I just wanted to get some advice since I’m a bit worried about losing my virginity. My original problem was that I wasn’t confident enough with myself, so I was never comfortable showing my whole body to someone else. I’ve met someone who I’ve fallen in love with, and I’m completely comfortable around him and he makes me feel absolutely beautiful. So that’s not my problem anymore. My problem is that I’m terrified of it hurting. I have tried fingering myself and I can’t do more than one finger, and I have a small vibrator that I’ve tried inserting and I can’t get it more than about an inch in because it hurts so bad. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to make it less painful? I want to have sex, and I want to take it to the next level with him, but I’m so scared of the pain.