What would you do?

Julie

I lost my son 6 months ago. I went in to Preterm labor at 24 weeks and 6 days. I had a Crash C-section and he lived 3 days. I miss him all the time but we still want a baby. My doctor said we should wait at least 6 months to try again. It's now been 6 months. I've searched the Internet and the march of dimes suggests 18 months between pregnacies to lower you preterm labor risks. That's a large difference. My husband suggested waiting 9 months to start trying I'm leaning towards waiting a year. What would you do?