ADVICE? MAYBE?

I truly love my husband but he thinks I'm not attracted to him because I never want to be all over him I'm not into physical contact even when my own mother hugs me I feel awkward. He is a very physical guy and lately he's been off in moods and he won't tell me what's wrong because he knows I have no idea how to fix it. I try to force myself to cuddle but then I feel claustrophobic. I sat outside and cried for about an hour and got to the point I couldn't breathe or see. I so badly want to fix this and am out of ideas on what to do. I just want him to be happy. He told me today he'd rather me abuse him than push him away... I'm not trying to push him away. Any advice or help?