Dual Mil and baby #2 is on the way


Hey everyone My husband and I have been in the navy for 6 yrs and Finally after 2 years of living across country from each other we are co located we already have 1 child together and right after finally getting our new orders we find out baby #2 is on the way !!! Unfortunately I am extremely nervous about the negative feedback I will receive from my command about my pregnancy because we are deploying in 3 months !! I want to request to separate because my previous pregnancy was really high risk and stressful husband was deployed and I just don’t want to be in with 2 kids and possibly jeopardize the health of my unborn child with stress .. I also just extended for 3 more years sooo any advice ladies do you think they will approve it if I request?!?