husband eating out w female cowrker?

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do i have the right to be upset or im overreacting? he never wants to go eat out w me or never takes me out to eat, yet he does it w his female coworker? what about his wife? he doesnt even want me to be around other guys or make friends w guys, why can he have friends w opposite sex, but i cant!? i feel like this isnt a friend thing at all.

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Girl....get rid of him! I lived that same shit for years and he was a cheating bastard!

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I JUST told my man about a post on here from yesterday... I even said ‘if you went to lunch in a group for work that’s one thing but if you went with her alone.... hell no.’ Idk I’m not cool with that at all!!!!

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I would divorce my husband in a split second if he went ON A DATE with another woman. Taking a woman who is not a family member out to eat is a date. Especially if he won't take you out to eat. Sorry but he's probably cheating.

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That is seriously weird! Have you brought it up with him?

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Girl PASS!! That is distrustful and you have every right to tell him that you don’t like that. It’s about respecting you and your feelings. My husband and I would not like each-other to be doing that!!

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If he doesn’t want you doing that then he shouldn’t be allowed to either. Not cool at all. If I had a talk with my husband about that and he still did it, I’d give him a taste of his own medicine

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I would drop him so fast

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My husband goes out for lunch with coworkers about once a week. Most of the people he works with are women. It doesn't bother me and it's not like he pays for them. We still go out to eat together or get take out once a week. I would be annoyed if he never ate our with me.

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I wouldn’t be worried if my husband had lunch with a coworker. What I wouldn’t be ok with if he controlled who I could see (ie male friends) or never went out to eat with me- to me this doesn’t seem like an equal relationship.

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Depends on the circumstance. Most likely he just went out with a coworker on his lunch break or for a meeting. I don’t see it as a big deal and I definitely wouldn’t be mad.
But if he’s not taking you on dates, that is a separate issue you should definitely talk about. He does need to take you out if that’s important to you. But I don’t see these things as connected

husband eating out w female cowrker?

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