I’m a stay at home mom and I understand that my job is to take care of the baby and the house. However, my husband likes to leave his clothes everywhere and trash. I have to pick it up because of the baby and I don’t know how to get it through to him, to pick up after himself. I tell him all of the time “ I’m not your mom or your maid “. Before him and I moved in together, his mommy always did everything for him. His mom told me that she never made him do chores. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he always says “ stop chastising me for little things “.