I live in a decent house with my bf we'll call him "Berto" and his 35 yr old friend and we'll call him "DICK". Well DICK has no job and hasn't had one for about a year or so now. We have along with friends and his sugar mama tried to help him get a job (all these jobs were good high paying jobs and will help in the long run) but Dick is always finding a reason to not take these jobs... Now ladies we all know how we get when it comes to our homes? Some of us are OCD about it or we are kinda lax about it but we still like it nice and neat. WHO AM I FUCKING KIDDING we all want our homes clean af and wanting it to stay that way for life so we do slave away the day. But anyways Dick don't help with shit around the house. Dick sits his lazy ass on the couch and watches YouTube, play guitar or plays video games. He eats all the food, leaves every light on in the house, and won't lift a finger to take out the trash. The only time he leaves the house is when he has to go see his 4 yr old son, his parents need help with his 16 yr old daughter or goes to church. And every other weekend he stays with his sugar mama. His sugar mama give him $50 once a week but he won't contribute any of that to helping us out but himself. Oh and Dick has sticky fingers and steals out of my medical stash (my devil's lettuce). Mind you I need that for my seizures and severe depression. He played it off as if he was getting his white lighter out of mine and Berto's bedroom. We don't take anyone's lighters because we have a bunch of them none are white they all have flowers, cats, or epic patterns on them. Plus when I see Dicks white lighter I put it in the ash tray that's in the center of the coffee table in the living room. No where else... I've tried to get Berto to kick him out but he has a big heart and always wanting to help everyone out. I honestly don't know how long I can take Dick living with us and taking advantage of Berto and I but mostly Berto. What would you ladies do in my situation.?