Hi Ladies,

I need advice, I’m a very socially awkward women, with horrible people skills. Which makes dating and building relationships with guys extremely hard 😢

I decided this year to step outside my comfort zone and try dating however I’m 29 and never dated before. so I haven’t really been exposed to the games man play. And this has caused me set backs the first guy I tried dating played me and I didn’t see it coming 🤦🏾‍♀️ I know as a chick pushing 30 it’s bad to fall for simple games.

However I met someone new who I’m attracted to, who’m I spent a couple of months getting to know.

Anyway Saturday was kinda the first date and I think I blew it😐 . When I’m nervous I talk to much and cut people off because of my ADHD. I also have dyslexia so I can sound very unintelligent 🤷🏾‍♀️ I also unintentionally do off putting things and say stupid stuff like thank the person too meany times and say negative things about myself.

Anyway after my date yesterday, he’s simply states that he thinks I’m okay... which has me nervous because prior he stated he thinks I’m a fun person. I don’t speak guy language and I don’t ever want to be played again by a guy cause that hurts. Should I call this a lose and move on and try to build a relationship with someone else. Or should I see were this could go? I don’t understand dating and trying to read people is annoying...