Boyfriend Problems 🤦🏾‍♀️

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. He is 24 and I am 20. We are both currently in school and he currently lives with me in my apartment. I have been more than nice enough to not make him pay rent because he has financial situations. He does at times pay for groceries but it’s rare. Well today I went to the grocery store and when I came back he did not move an inch to help me with groceries until I was pretty much done. He said all I had to do was ask and I feel as a male I shouldn’t have to ask for him to help me with groceries that he only put $20 into. Then he didn’t even help me put them up like...there are more things that have happened that pissed me off, but I’m really confused as to what I should do at this point. I’m tired of doing everything and we both live here together.