Before I had my daughter (born 4/2/18) I was dead set on having another one soon(ish) after. But now, I think I’m one and done. So much so that my husband and I are discussing him getting a vasectomy. We are going to take a few months to decide for sure so we don’t regret it, but I’m just curious if anyone else has felt this way and changed their mind so drastically after their first.

Since I know some may ask.. a few reasons for my change of heart:

1) I already have a 6yo step daughter so we have two kids part of the time and two dogs. It’s a lot of work! Haha

2) daycare is SO expensive

3) my daughter and step daughter both have their own rooms in our 3 bedroom house. We don’t plan to move anytime soon so two of the kids would have to share.

4) I don’t think I can handle being a mom/stepmom of 3 girls if that were to happen 🙈🙈😂