So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now. We are very sexually active, we have sex at least once or twice a day everyday. He’s always the one doing all the work though. I’ve only been top a few times and even then I didn’t really do much because I was too scared. I never was the one to be in charge. I told him how I felt and he said to wait until I’m ready. I want to do it, but I’m so insecure I feel like I won’t do it right. Any tips or advice on what to do?

Also, what I mean by being insecure is that I just don’t feel like I’m sexy enough to be in charge, i feel like I won’t turn him on.