I like this kid from another high school. He added my snap and we started flirting/talking. His name is Bryan. We’ve been talking for over a month and I wanted to see him in person. (Junior and freshmen. ) maybe after school on a weekend. He’s always saying anytime come to Nashua surprise me so I did... right after a fight. He never showed and I stayed for 4 days. After that things weren’t the same. But I told him I wanted to end it and he said “Baby girl if you leave me I will be So depressed”🤨 Wtf? We haven’t been talking that long. He’s not a player. But I’m just not feeling it anymore. I like the attention from a boy but I know respect is more important than that. The way he’s so obsessive shows he’s not respectful and he doesn’t text me for days on end. His excuses don’t add up. I need a boy who is consistent and great at communicating. I don’t know what to do? The way he said “depressed” sounded cryptic. Like he was going to hurt himself I don’t want to ... I don’t know. If I cyber dumb him when he’s depressed and has no one else he trusts. Is that right? I still care about him. But if I keep talking to him while Other crushes come, that I want to pursue them that are in person that’s wrong. I want to do what’s best for me. I’d rather be alone than have “puppy dog eyes” on me. I want something real.

I’ve never had a non-fuck boys attention before a boy who actually likes talking to me for me....not my body. I’ve lost feelings but I still appreciate it. I never had an official relationship. Just “talking” give me advice I need a confidence boost to do the right thing.

UPDATE: I told him how I felt and he asked for another chance to meet. Even though we're not " bab” anymore. I told my best friend who also lives in Nashua and we're going to meet him together. I have no idea what spot to pick. Or what to wear. I want to give the good impression. And I want to except the best. Clean friend slate. But what if it ends really we'll? I don't want to make him feel left out if I'm talking with my bestie more so any tips for having a third wheel😊