Birthday gift ettiquette


My daughters first birthday is coming up, she’s the first grandbaby in the family, and I’m the youngest of 3 girls at 25, so to say everyone spoils this baby would be an understatement.

I thought about putting on the birthday invitation that if they choose to bring gifts we would like diapers & wipes, or books and clothes but I don’t know if that comes off as rude. She just already has so many toys and our house is 1100 sq ft so utilizing every little space is crucial.

I know that it is a gift and that is why I don’t want to sound like I am expecting anyone to spend their money on what I want. Idk🤷🏼‍♀️