Is it weird that it bothers me?

Question

So im almost 18 and my boyfriend is almost 20. Clearly we don’t want a baby at this age. But he always says nooooo way are we having a baby. Like not happening. And I know that, but he always says how he’s making sure we don’t have a baby, yeah it’s smart but accidents happen. So now I’m thinking realistically, if I fell pregnant, what would he do? 
Like is he gonna want me to abort it? I personally wouldn’t get an abortion. 
Is it weird that it bothers me that he’s so against having a baby this young ? 
But I do not want a baby and I am not ready for one 🤷🏼‍♀️

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You need to figure it out way before you have sex. My boyfriend knew before we very had sex that I would get an abortion without a second thought. Talk about it, and do not have sex if you aren't on the same page

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Ha it shouldn’t. I was the sammeeeeee way at that age.  Nobody wants to be stuck with a baby at 18-20 (unplanned ) so take precautions. Get on birth control, follow your ovulation days, make him used condoms. It’s all about prevention. He’s young , of course it’s normal! 
And those questions must be talked about because you are right, accidents do happen. But if you are prepared, they will decrease immensely

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Those are questions that only he can answer, I think it would be best to ask him. Sure it's hypothetical and you both can change your minds but it's always good to communicate and know what each other feels about such an important topic l. My SO and I always knew we wanted kids but not right away and we decided if anything happened before we were married we would make it work and raise our baby together. To me, not wanting kids in the future or asking for an abortion would be a deal breaker.

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Does he not want a baby ever? Is that what bothers you maybe? 
But.. I mean since you guys don’t want a baby it makes sense to take precautions so it doesn’t happen.

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My BD always said the same thing. About how he would never be a dad. No way in hell was he ever having kids! Saying this as he was busting his nuts in my guts 🙄🙄 
We got pregnant, and when I showed him the pregnancy test he sat there and held it and was “what’d you put on this? What’d you put on this to make it positive, why you fucking with me” then when I told him he was an idiot and my piss made it positive, he threw the pregnancy test and sat their and MOPED! Like boy you moping when my body going through this? 
But now he’s the best daddy I could ever imagine for my daddy. 
He was 21 at the time. So guys just don’t think about kids at young ages like we do.

Is it weird that it bothers me?

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