Occupy my mind?


My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year and a half. Every month that I get my period I feel like an absolute failure. My husband doesn't seem to have much interest in a sex life so I don't talk about getting pregnant because I don't want to annoy or frustrate him. So many people have told us not to think so much about getting pregnant, don't stress about it etc and it will happen really fast. How do I NOT think about it when it's all I can think about?? I try to keep myself busy but how do I NOT think about the one thing I want more than anything?