Sperm donor or freeze eggs?

Valerie • TTC again. Mom to one 👼🏽

Anyone thought of going to a sperm bank? Or freezing there eggs? I’ve lost one child due to IC at 6 months. It was devastating and my ex an I broke up (2 years ago) Now my current BF an I just broke up and he said I was to over weight (I’m 5’10 220) to reproduce with an that he basically didn’t see himself marrying me. I’m 35 years old. I want kids very badly. Loosing the first one almost ruined me. I’m not really sure what I should at this point.