so I have been trying to work on communicating more efficiently with my fiance but it has been increasingly difficult to do so. Sometimes we don't speak for days on end and if we do it's usually me asking questions and getting simple answers. Me "how was your day baby" him "fine." me "what are you doing right now" him "nothing." me "can we have a conversation" him "don't feel like talkin" these are the kinds of responses I've been getting. this isnt just a one-time thing. this has been ongoing, so much so that I left for a month last year. one of the conditions of me coming back was us going to couples counseling. he decided he's not going to do that. he says we dont need it. we've been trying to conceive a child. I've been to the doctor, got myself checked out. they went so far as to try and fill my cervix with fluid to make sure there was nothing more serious going on. that experience was far from comfortable when it came time for his part all he had to do was fill the cup. now he tells me he doesn't want to, or rather doesn't need to do that. that was two months ago I keep asking him why our communication seems to suffer, his answer is always "well I had a lot going on at the moment." life is full of things we have to do on a daily basis. every time I bring up how this creates conflict in our relationship he tells me that that's a me problem. I don't know what to do anymore. every time I bring something up to him he tells me it's my fault, my feelings, my problem. I'm just really tired of him promising me one thing and giving me another. what do I do? do I sink deeper into my depression? he makes me feel like I'm asking too much of him. am I? please help me.