Boyfriend threaten to hit me.

Okay. So it all started when we were in the car. He said to me “hand me my Gatorade” with attitude and like he had asked me multiple times but he didn’t. So jokingly I said “say please” he said no and then would like slightly pinch my knee because it tickled me thinking I’d just give it to him. But I wasn’t backing down because well for one he never says please and two I thought we were just playing around ya know? He then says “im going to win” and shit now it’s a competition so I wasn’t gonna let him win. He then says he’s gonna get angry at me and started to pinch me hard. Like I won’t be surprised if I have bruises on my arm and legs. I started to kinda get annoyed that he literally could not just say please. Like is it that damn hard?

So then I tell him for the last time “say please” and he clenches up his fist and went to go hit me but like brought it back to himself before he could touch me and while doing this says “I’m gonna fucking punch you if you don’t give it to me.” He sounded so mad. I’ve never seen him that mad and he’s NEVER threatened to hurt me before. I was so shook

I gave him the Gatorade and didn’t say a peep the whole ride home. When we got close he says he’s sorry. I said “for what” thinking maybe he’s only sorry for something else. He said “for threatening to hit you. That’s the first time you’ve ever made me that mad”. I said “it doesn’t mean it’s right.” He then says “well I had to win”. Like really? You say sorry and then turn around and basically excuse it? Oh hell no. Not today.

Idk. Now I’m not trying to talk to him as much as I can because I’m honestly really upset about it but I don’t wanna drag out the fight. Has your SO ever done this to you? Is this normal? And I know it’s literally about the stupidest thing but I’m still really shook.