Controlling baby daddy

The man I’m with is suppose to be my boyfriend lol. But we’ve been off an on for 3.5 years now. I’m a white female he’s a black male. I ended up getting pregnant the third year and we have a little girl now she’s 2 months old. He’s gotten really controlling after I had her. Like basically I’m just suppose to stay home with the baby and do nothing , and we’ve argued multiple times and once he even said he never wanted to reproduce with a white person. And was saying that our child is solely black and basically all I did was carry her for 9 months.