Hey guys. Ok so I’m Cinderella. I’m pregnant. I’m due to have this baby in 2 weeks and this is supposed to be a joyful time but it’s not. I’m bout to have our second son and my husband has been no help. Lemme back track, so me and my husband have been together since 2014. We got married in 2016. He proposed to me within 2 yrs on New Years and we got married in the winter. We never lived together. I don’t believe in cohabitation due to my religious belief which he respected but now I kinda wish we did. I regret it now. So when we got married, it was like the curtains fell. I’m a clean person and was brought up that a wife is the helpmate to her but I realized that he not from simple things. When we was dating, his apt was neat somewhat but like average. So when we got married, I would cook and wash dishes. I would ask for help but he never really got up to help me. I started seeing he is lazy. He does the bare minimum. I found myself cleaning all the time and I’m like we both adults here. He would leave his dirty oily clothes just sitting in the bathroom instead of putting them in his bathroom closet 😤 so I would be picking them up. Then he would get upset, and say he can’t find nothing. But I’m tripping over his dirty clothes. He would shave and not wipe the counter where he shave. I had a sit down with him to try to resolve his personal cleanliness. But he continued. He does not pick up after himself. Idk if he think because I’m his wife that he think my job is clean up after him all the time but no. I’m not a stay at home mom. I work too. With our son, he hardly helps change a diaper or bathe him unless I leave our son with him then he don’t have a choice. It really get on my nerves that when company come over, I rush to clean and I ask him to help and he say “it’s not that serious. If they gonna judge how our house look, they don’t need to come”. 😓 so after being married almost 2 yrs and I’m pregnant with his second child. I came to realize that my husband is lazy. Now I wanna leave. Because he is just not clean. My husband is a good man, loyal, supports us, and ect but this problem, something that seem so easily fixed is so MAJOR because he just won’t comply. I’ve tried and tried but he just brushed me off and still just messy.

My question is: Because my husband is not a clean person.... is it worth leaving him?? Is that a deal breaker? Stay or go? What do I do??? Tips?