We’re trying to conceive and have been for about a year and a half. Had a miscarriage last August and my cycles just started becoming predictable early this year.
I’ve been doing all my homework. Ovulation predictors, vitamins, tracking my cycle, having sex each day once I reach high until peak.
Today we had a very limited window before my husband left for work and we needed to use lube. After we had finished, I realized we could’ve made a huge mistake.
It’s water based, but not natural.
I went and googled everything I could.
I am now SPIRALING.
Did I ruin our chances? Also, did I ruin the next few days or just today?
I am devastated.
Obviously people get pregnant while they use lube. But fuck.
Pardon my French, but I feel like I just sabotaged myself.