Okay so I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now and we are pretty serious and I love him so much which is why I’m concerned. When I first started dating him I didn’t think he ever smoked then about 5 months later he started smoking a lot. Now at this point he is constantly high. Sometimes I can’t tell that he is high which really bothers me. His “record” is smoking 10 separate times in 1 day. He usually smokes an average of 3 times per day. He is still in high school and he does not have any health reason to be smoking. He just does it for fun. It has become so constant that he will get out of bed at midnight to sneak out to smoke and last week he even smoked before school and then before his final.

I have now talked to him about it 3 times and he feels really bad and stops for like a day and promises to do better. That never happens. I’m just sad because I care about him and his future and if anything happens it would be, with no exaggeration, painful to live through.

I’m really not a protective girlfriend whatsoever, like I don’t care what he is doing and I don’t snoop or anything I just was not expecting to be dating the person he is now (the definition of a stoner).

Any advice on what to do?

UPDATE:

We went to a movie for date night, he picked me up high, then after the 2 hour movie he pulled the car over and smoked the rest of his weed while I walked down the block and sat by myself so I didn’t smell. He know I don’t like it when I’m sober and he is baked out of his mind but he did it anyways, on our date night no less