Worst Mother’s Day

Started my period last night and all I can do is feel like a failure....we’ve been trying for 3/4 cycles already....I know some women try at least 6 months before feeling like this...I just can’t understand what would be the issue...I had symptoms that I even tried to ignore. Im just so overwhelmed i don’t even know how to comfort my partner....yes I’m the carrier of our children but she’s hurting just as much as I am. I’m so damn emotional 😭 this is taking a huge toll on my confidence of carrying....someone PLEASE give me comforting words to share with her or advice....if she feels better maybe i can just put it to the bk of my mind and just start over to continue trying. Please help 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭