Does it hurt as bad as people say?

Question

So im a virgin and all my friends have had sex. My boyfriend and I are talking about having it but every time he fingers me I can’t stand the pain. He keeps telling me “baby I don’t wanna hurt you” but I feel like if I just got it done with it wouldn’t hurt after a while. I just don’t know what to do without being a pussy. Is there like a way to not be as painful? Or something? Help please !!!

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Honestly, for me it was so painful I was constantly pushing him away. But that was probably because I lost my virginity in the shower and the water takes off all your natural lubricant. But it will feel better after a few times. Just be sure to be honest with him if it hurts and take it slow. ❤️ and like she said if you’re on top it’s a lot easier. I don’t suggest losing your virginity doggie style. That position still hurts me even now lol.

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My first time I found it painful when he tried to penetrate me whilst on top of me but I found if I was ontop and slowly sat on his dick that it wasn't as painful and made it easier for the penetration to happen with less pain. The most painful part is the first penetration and being ontop yourself makes it easier as you can go at your own pace and take your time if need be. Try this and see if it works, there not trying.

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Didn’t really hurt for me🤷🏻‍♀️. Make sure you’re wet enough before he puts it in and go slow

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to be honest, when I first got fingered it was hella painful but it was mostly due to the fact that I was nervous and tense. when you come down to it, you need to be relaxed, have enough foreplay, and go slow. it could take a couple of tries because of the pain, but don't get discouraged.

Does it hurt as bad as people say?

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