When I first truly accepted Islam as my religion, I didn’t think past the love I had for my Creator, Tabarak Wa Ta’ala. So when I began to come across things about my role as a woman in Islam, I momentarily shut down. It’s quite embarrassing that I even thought this stuff was true, but I want to address some real misconceptions. So I will mention them anyway.1 - I thought a man could beat his wife, because of an ayah I read from the Qur’an. It did not at the time occur to me that the Qur’an MUST be interpreted, along with additional information provided from Hadith. Turns out, a man can hit his wife equivalent to striking her with a feather. A feather!! And even to do this, she must be going completely astray. I have yet to read any restrictions regarding this matter, from a woman to a man.2 - I thought men were entitled to so much more reward, by means of jumu’ah, performing salah in the masjid, eid salah, etc. But then I read ahadith that taught me that a woman earns just as much reward by praying alone, taking care of her home and her husband. SubhanAllah, a woman is entitled to at least as much reward without even having to leave her home. Which makes us more likely to attain this reward, as in this busy age, our men often struggle to make it to the masjid for every salah. 3 - It seemed unfair me that a wife should not refuse her husband sex. I went on to learn that not only can a woman refuse, with reason. But also that Allah Ta’ala is Just and has balanced this - a man is expected to please his wife until she is completely satisfied. 4 - It bothered me that jannah is full of rewards for men, not women. Turns out that very few rewards of jannah are actually revealed to us. And those that are revealed to us have been subject to various interpretations. But the one thing Allah Ta’ala has told us that is clear and not open to interpretation, is that He is Al-Adl, The Utterly Just. So we trust in this and know that we will never feel unhappy or jealous with our rewards in jannah. And personally, I am not interested in any reward of jannah, other than the reward of seeing Allah Ta’ala and being close to Him. InshaAllah! Some cultures, that happen to be Muslim dominated, are unfortunately oppressive to women. It’s really upsetting that they do treat women as inferior beings. And it’s incredibly important to recognise that Islam holds women in a completely different light to these cultural norms. Muslim women are to be loved, protected and respected. Some cultures even deny women an education, and try to justify this with religion. A huge part of our religion is in seeking knowledge. And my absolute favourite example is of Hadhrat Aisha (RA) who is not only officially recognised as a scholar, but as THE greatest scholar in the history of Islam. The fact that a woman is granted such a title, over so many amazing male contenders, demonstrates the clear, recognised strength of women in Islam.Hadhrat Khadija RA was one of the four greatest women in Islam. She was a huge feminist, an incredibly successful business woman, a perfect wife and she had such a close spiritual bond with Allah Ta’ala. She is my ultimate role model.My take on equality in Islam: The western world recognises gender equality as whatever men can do, so can women. And vice versa. This is great, but oversimplified, in my opinion. Allah Ta’ala created man and woman. He knows each of us, our capabilities and our attributes best. If we were expected to be and do the same, then He would have created one type of human, not two. So we are granted equality according to our strengths and weaknesses, how we were created and our roles. The point about sex that I have mentioned above is a perfect example, showing how our needs differ to those of men. But both needs have been catered to equally.There is one situation where I feel the scale could be tipping towards women. Though I do not believe this falls into an argument of equality, as the significance of this this role is beyond justified. And this is the status of a mother. How blessed a mother is in her existence, subhanAllah. A mother carries jannah beneath her feet, her prayers are answered because there is no heart more sincere than that of a mother, we are obligated to respect, love and care for our mothers. And then follow the virtues of breastfeeding and raising a child. SubhanAllah. May Allah Ta’ala bless us all with beautiful babies and make us the best mothers, InshaAllah.