Mother’s Day for stepmoms

My man and I love our small but hopefully growing family (we’ve been ttc) and this Mother’s Day is my first one and I don’t think he is going to do anything. I get I’m not her mother and never will but she will call me mom once and a while and she loves me and i love her but I’m kinda sad about tomorrow especially since we have been trying for our own baby it’s almost a tear down to be ignored on Mother’s Day even though I’m not a mom but a step mom counts.