Hey ladies, any tips on helping him be less self conscious? He was fit and more so on the skinny side when we met two years ago. With time and the baby on the way he's been fairly steadily gaining some weight. It's not a lot and I still think he looks great! I wanted to go swimming yesterday and the only place that we could go was a public pool and he did not want to go. I'm starting to think it's bc of the weight gain?

I need to be exercising anyways, should I just encourage him to go with me or meet me there after work so we can both get fit?

We were doing it religiously for a while but then got out of the habit over holidays. I just hate seeing him be self conscious! I also need to be cooking healthier. Any advice would be appreciated.

Also he's had to start buying new clothing (like pants) and hates buying a size or two up and doesn't want to. So he's squeezing into his old pants. Not sure how to help boost his self esteem