My husband and I have been trying to conceive since September. It will be our first child and I’ll be 29 this year. When we first started trying I had cyst on my ovaries and then my thyroid was messed up, went to the doctor Friday and everything is good with all that so have to continue trying for a month then it will be my husbands turn to get checked. How do y’all keep from stressing out and stay relaxed? I feel like it’s always on my mind and I catch myself crying because I have never wanted anything more in my life. Everybody keeps telling me to relax and not think about it so much and it’ll happen when least expected, well how do I relax when I want this sooo bad??????