I have two, almost teenage children. Whom I love dearly. I am planning to have another child. However have been told, numerous times that I shouldn’t have this want. It’s selfish. It’s silly. It’s odd. Am I no longer allowed to feel what is a very natural urge in a woman...the deep wanting for a child. Is this selfish because I have children? Is it a ‘we gotta share’ kind of thing? ‘You already had a piece of cake’ so you can’t have another kind of thing! Some women don’t have children & I do, therefore I am not allowed to want another? This is so disturbing. Truly.