Can't see an OB/GYN to get bc pills. help

ok so I live in a community where doctors won't assist with birth control options unless you are married. they can kick you out of the clinic if you had this inquiry while being unmarried. however getting the pills from a pharmacy requires no prescription (weird I know). so I think I'll probably be sexually active soon and don't feel comfortable using only condoms for protection, can anyone recommend a certain bcp or guide me on what to do? I'm 23 btw. thanks