Is it normal to think sex is kind of gross?

Question

I’m 21 and my bf always wants to have sex and I’ve been refusing for the longest time because it freaks me out with all the body fluids and everything.
We just had sex today for the first time and after he came in me I threw up so hard and was shaking because I felt so grossed out. I mean I love my bf and the sex felt good but is it normal to feel like this?

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you might have a phobia of body fluids hun
 look into it
also the act of sharing sexual pleasure with someone isn’t for everyone! Some people prefer not to engage in sexual intimacy with another person and they call them selves asexual

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I think you have extreme anxiety of some kind... you shouldn’t be throwing up because of how “gross” it is..

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Condoms should help with that part. And the added bonus of a lowered chance of pregnancy and protection against STDs! 🙌🏻👍🏼

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do you think you might be asexual?

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Don’t let him cum in you ????

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you could be asexual or demisexual.

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Stop letting him ejaculate in you to see if that helps anything. 
I also recommend talking to someone about this because there could be underlying factors at play like how sex was viewed in your household.

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I think if you know you feel this way about sex, a good way to not feel so gross afterward is by not having him cum in you.

Is it normal to think sex is kind of gross?

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