Pressure from Society

Is anyone else tired of the pressure from society to be something you aren’t?? Seems like the only way you can ever be attractive anymore is if you have tanned skin, tiny waist, big boobs, big butt, thigh gap, flawless skin, and perfect makeup. I am none of those. I’m your average girl. I have pale skin, freckles/moles, acne, scars, tiny boobs, chubby belly, slim thighs but definitely don’t have a gap, and an average sized butt. I find myself comparing myself to Instagram models all the time. It’s the worst habit of mine. Sometimes I just wish I could stop caring and be confident. It’s so hard though. How do you ladies do it?