RANT FUTURE MIL

Nancy

OKAY SO THIS IS GONNA BE IN CAPS CAUSE IT HIGHLY IRRITATES ME. ALSO LONG POST SO SORRY BUT MY BOYFRIENDS MOM KEEPS TRYING TO TELL US WHAT WE SHOULD DO TO RAISE OUR DAUGHTER. THE PLAN IS TO STAY WITH MY MOM UNTIL WE GET TO WHERE WE CAN WE CAN BE COMPLETELY FINANCIALLY STABLE. I ALSO WANT TO STAY WITH MY MOM BECAUSE SHE CAN HELP ME WITH BABY BECAUSE THIS IS MY FIRST BABY AND I JUST FEEL COMFORTABLE HAVING HER AROUND ATLEAST WHILE SHE IS A LITTLE NEWBORN. BUT HIS MOM THINKS WE SHOULD APPLY FOR HOUSING AND WON'T GIVE IT A REST AND APPARENTLY THINKS THAT MY MOMS HOUSE IS NOT HEALTHY OR GOOD ENOUGH FOR BABY WHEN MY MOM WOULDN'T EVEN CONSIDER HER GRANDDAUGHTER TO LIVE HERE REGARDLESS IF THAT WERE THE CASkoE. ALSO SHE HAS NOW SAID SOMETHING THAT SEEMS LIKE SHE DOESN'T THINK MY MOM WILL BE ABLE TO HELP WITH BABY BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T HELP MOVE FURNITURE IN. MY MOM IS ONLY 5'0 AND CAN'T LIFT VERY HEAVY FUFNITURE. ALSO MY STEP DAD IS WEIRD AND DOESN'T LET PEOPLE HE DOESN'T KNOW EVEN IF IT MIGHT BE MY BOYFRIENDS MOM IN THE HOUSE. SHE THINKS JUST BECAUSE SHE IS HIS MOM SHE SHOULD BE DIFFERENT AND THAT APPARENTLY SHE KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR OUR CHILD. IT'S JUST REALLY IRRITATING AND I WOULD VERY MUCH APPRECIATE NOT BEING TOLD HOW TO RAISE MY CHILD OR WHAT IS BEST ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE DOES NOT KNOW EVERY DETAIL IN THE SITUATION. SORRY FOR THE LONG POST JUST NEEDED TO RANT AND CAN'T ON FB CAUSE SHE IS MY FRIEND.