Good evening ladies.

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So I need some serious opinions. For the past three years I have given birth way too early to babies who have passed. First at 19 weeks in ‘16, then 23 weeks last year, and lost a twin at 15 weeks with this pregnancy. I’ll be 20 weeks Monday & find out what I’m having this Tuesday coming up.

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My questions for you ladies are, when should I have the baby shower? Before baby or after baby? Second, should I even buy the baby things to prepare if I don’t have a baby shower? My biggest fear is losing another baby & I have a load of baby stuff.

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Thanks in advance ladies.