Okay so when my husband and i first started trying to have a baby i was pretty naive and told some friends.

I totally regret that now. Everyone i had told is pregnant. Which i am over the moon for them but i hate the part where they make it about my fertility struggle than to let me just be happy for them. everyone was hesitant to tell me. I get told “please don’t be mad” “i wasn’t trying, that’s the secret”

And then one of my closest friends told me her and her boyfriend are going to start trying and she actually said “are you going to be mad if i get pregnant before you” i was feeling SO much anger and hurt in that moment i was at a loss as to what to say. I’m understanding, i remember how i thought things worked before i discovered how long it could take to get pregnant. So i try not to come off as anything but ecstatic for them but COME ON I’m wearing thin 😭