I need to vent and i have no one

I’m so angry right now for many reasons but two of them is my car broke down and my husband needs a specific tool that my brother happens to have but he doesn’t want to lend it to us. I have never did something for him to think I wouldn’t return it or that I would destroy it I don’t get why he doesn’t want us to use it! We are short on cash if I could go buy it I would or if I could afford a mechanic again I would and I wouldn’t ask for help!! Second my husband told his mother he was done having a relationship with her boyfriend. Back story his mom and bf are always fighting,leaving each other, calling cops it’s a whole mess! He finally told her mom if u go back I’m done with him thats your life I’m not dealing with it no more. She agreed but then days later she went back. Then she texted my husband please forgive him and all this bs

He then told her no mom, she then proceeded to keep texting him and inviting him over. My husband would always answer no

She freaking came over today with her boyfriend to my house where my husband is forced to talk him!!! How disrespectful of his mom I can’t stand her

VENTING OVER 😡😡😡😡