Husband discouraged...

My husband is discouraged that it's taking so long after our miscarriage to get pregnant again.. he's starting to blame himself and think it's his fault. He's to the point that his feelings are affecting him physically...

I thought he was uninterested or giving up on trying. But he says he wants to and then can't get hard... I think he's putting too much pressure on himself. I don't know how I can help him.

I figure, he got me pregnant once before.. so I wouldn't think he would take it personally.

We have NEVER had issues with him not being able to get hard.. NEVER.

How can I fix this? I don't want him to put so much pressure on himself ...