Worried momma

Kiara

So my daughter is 3 1/2 and she doesn’t communicate well, we have her in speech therapy and daycare.. I don’t want to over think but my daughter doesn’t like when I have to wipe her(she’s not potty trained yet) .. I try teaching her but that doesn’t work either would like to know if any other moms has had problems with their little ones not wanting to be wiped..? Is this a phase idk what to do and I don’t want to think the worse ..