Distant husband

All he talks about is work and the gym. If I talk about our family, he doesn’t respond. Literally doesn’t say a word. When I met him he told me he wanted a family and how important it was to him. Now that he has one he seems to prefer work. He wants to work out, go to work, then work out after. He gets annoyed if he has to wake up when our baby wakes up. Is constantly annoyed by our older child. It feels like we’re an inconvenience to him. It feels like I got cheated out of all the things he said he wanted or claimed to be.