I’m a first time mom and I am scheduled to have a C-Section this Monday at 8am, but have to be at the hospital by 6am. My boyfriend moved to my home town to have a better living environment for us and our baby. Well 2 of his sisters (who live 2 hours away in his hometown) want to come Monday and Tuesday to see the baby. I know nothing about how I will be feeling afterwards or the next day. I told him I didn’t know how I’d feel and I kinda don’t know if I want visitors and he just got angry/annoyed with me so I told him they could come. I’m regretting it now because I honestly just want to relax and do what I have to do to heal with just my mom, grandma, and him by my side. I mean if I feel decent enough to have visitors I might. Is it okay to change my mind or is it rude of me ?

UPDATE: If I’m not going to allow his family to visit then my family will not be allowed to either. It all depends on how I feel Tuesday. My grandma is going Monday bc my stepdad will not be there and she doesn’t want my mom to be alone. My mom will be back to work on Tuesday.